Beyond Cheap Grace

This is a message I shared on Friday in our Vine service. It is deeply influenced by my recent reading of Eldin Villafane's work and my own reading of Bonheoffer. Excuse the rough draft format, it is just some food for throught. I would highly recommend the book, by the way.

I have been thinking about this quite a bit lately… you know, they are putting up a nice outlet mall just down the road from us… with all kinds of high end, name brand stores… just what my wife needs, another place to go shopping. I got to stop saying this kind of stuff… I keep forgetting that she is in here and then I get myself into trouble. They are putting in the kind of stores with stuff that we can’t afford anyway… it never ceases to amaze me the amount of money people will spend on clothes, or shoes… or really anything for that matter… all for a label, a tag, an image.

It is crazy to spend that kind of money on this stuff… but, I wonder, how many of you have ever bought a cheap knockoff? Come on now, don’t lie to the pastor. It seems like a good idea at the time, doesn’t it. Our kids all want to fit in… they just have to have this bag or those jeans… of course, sportswear is expensive… if you kid just has to have Adidas equipment and you can’t afford it… the easy solution is to buy them some Abibas equipment…

or maybe they are more into Nike, well we’ve got that covered too… just buy Neki… close enough, right?

Jeans are the worst, I cannot believe the amount of money people will spend on a pair of jeans… you really want some Ralph Lauren jeans… it is a lot cheaper to get some Polo, Ralphi House pants…

you can’t afford Lee… no problem, just get some Lgg…

I really don’t understand what it is about bags or purses with you ladies… but if you really want that Gucci bag… I can tell you right now that the Cuggi one is going to be a lot more affordable…

and my favorite… items with characters can be the worst… don’t pay the extra money for snoopy, when snooby will do just fine.

You know, I remember when I was in junior high – those brutal, brutal junior high years, how many of you are glad that you are not in junior high anymore? – all the cool kids wore the expensive name brand clothes… but we couldn’t afford that stuff… I got hand me downs, thrift store clothes and knock offs… I ran track, cross country and played a few sports… that was right around the time when Oakley sunglasses got really popular… all the cool kids had a pair of Oakley’s… It was going to be a cold day in you know where, South Texas, wait what were you thinking… there was no way my parents were going to buy me $150 pair of sunglasses… and I didn’t have that kind of money… one day I found a $5 knock off… they were probably called Oxley’s or something… I thought I was so cool… but it was obvious that they weren’t real… they were just a little off… they were obviously a lower quality… and pretty soon the trademark “O” began to rub off… the cheap knock off is just not the same, and everybody knows it.

What I am concerned about, these days, is that many have bought into a cheap, knock off version of Christianity… do you know what I’m talking about? It is best expressed by this idea that Dietrich Bonheoffer wrote about. He called it “cheap grace.” Many of you know that Bonheoffer was a pastor in Germany during WWII. He was part of a Christian moment at the time called “the confessing church” that opposed the Nazis, and even at one point attempted to put together a plan to assassinate Hitler… Bonheoffer was arrested, thrown in prison, and executed by the Nazis… He is a modern day martyr.

In his book The Cost of Discipleship, Bonheoffer wrote: “Cheap grace is the deadly enemy of our Church. We are fighting today for costly grace…

Cheap grace is the preaching of forgiveness without requiring repentance, baptism without church discipline, communion without confession… cheap grace is grace without discipleship, grace without cross, grace without Jesus Christ, living and incarnate…

Costly grace is the gospel which must be sought again and again, the gift which must be asked for, the door at which one must knock. Such grace is costly because it calls us to take up our cross and follow, it is grace because it calls us to follow Jesus Christ.”

You see, cheap grace Christianity is the kind that doesn’t cost much… It says, “Please don’t ask too much of me”; “Don’t place any demands on me.” As long as everything is going well and you’re blessing me, I will follow… I’ll believe… but when the going gets tough… when the road gets rough… well, I might just sit this one out Jesus. It is like we have a sign on the door of our heard that says “Do Not Disturb.” Jesus is knocking, inviting, calling… but we don’t really want to let Him in… because if we truly encounter Him… the same Jesus we meet in Scripture… He is going to mess with our lives… He will turn everything upside down… He won’t just leave you the way that you are… He will change you and rearrange you. If you are looking for the easy way… don’t become a disciple of Jesus Christ… it is not the easy way, but it is the only Way to the Father.

Too often we come into Christian fellowship to be entertained… fed… to get warm fuzzies… to get our needs met… and there is a good deal of that that happens in Christian community, there is nothing necessarily wrong with that… but that is a by product, that is not the focus… because that is all about us, but the reality is that it is not about me, and it is not about you, it is not about us, it is all about Him… and He calls us to something deeper.

The world doesn’t need a cheap knock off version of Christianity… a safe, soft, fragile version just won’t do! What we need… and what our world desperately needs is real Christianity… costly grace… one that has the marks of the cross in its hands! We follow a Jesus who said, “If anyone wants to come after me, let her deny herself, take up her cross and follow me.” That is the cost of discipleship… our life.

We would have to totally ignore our Bible if we are going to buy into the knock off version… Cheap grace flies in the face of the call that we find from Paul in Romans 12…

1 Therefore, I urge you, brothers and sisters, in view of God’s mercy, to offer your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and pleasing to God—this is your true and proper worship. 2 Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will.

Renewing of our Minds: What is the pattern of this world? Selfishness, self-centeredness, greed, idolatry… do not conform to the pattern of this world any longer… but be transformed by the renewing of your minds…

Tony Robbins, the self-help guru, once said, “What creates an extraordinary life is an extraordinary mindset!” I don’t necessarily agree with all that self-help stuff that we encounter these days… but, I think that he is on to something here… only I would rephrase it to say, “What creates an extraordinary Christian life is an extraordinary mindset – the mind of Christ!”

That is what Paul writes in Philippians 2 that fits so well with this Romans 12 passage, He says… Therefore, have the same mindset as Christ… in other words think the same way that He did… have the same attitude the same outlook as Christ… Paul goes on to say, who was in the form of God… in other words, He was God.. on the throne, in Heaven… He deserved all honor, worship and praise from every living thing… the Angels worshiped and served Him, He had all power and all authority… but, Paul tells us that he emptied himself… and took on the form of a slave… wow… this is the Jesus I know… He had every right to demand respect, to require service from others… You can’t get any higher than God… He was at the top of the totem pole… and yet He humbled himself, He left it all to become a man… to take on human form… as a human, over and over again, he stooped down to serve… he reached down to touch the sick, the hurting, the lost… I mean think about it, he washed his own disciples feet… can you imagine, Jesus, the Lord of all Creation… the one who spoke the heavens into existence, who created the galaxies and all the billions of starts… who spoke light and color into the world… who made every animal, all the creatures of the earth… every living thing… bending down today, kneeling, taking off your shoes and washing your feet… we should fall down on our faces before Him… worship and adore Him, but this is the mind of Christ, Paul says… it is an attitude of humble service.

Not only that, but Paul writes… He emptied himself and became obedient to the point of death, even death on a cross… obedience to the call of God even when it hurts, even when it is hard, even when it costs us everything…that is the mind of Christ. The cross is the ultimate symbol of loving sacrifice… Let me just say, our everything is nothing… what to we have to give up is worthless compared to what we have to gain in Him… what does it profit a person to gain the whole world, but lose their own soul… we have so much more to gain that what we give… and He gave His life for us… I’m reminded of one of my favorite hymns:

The Wondrous Cross:

When I survey the wondrous cross

On which the Prince of Glory died

My richest gain I count but loss

And pour contempt on all my pride

See from his head, his hands, his feet

Sorrow and love flow mingled down

Did ever such love and sorrow meet

Or thorns compose so rich a crown

Were the whole realm of nature mine

That were an offering far too small

Love so amazing, so divine

Demands my soul, my life, my all

That is true grace… costly grace… do not settle for the cheap, knock off version of Christianity… the call of Christ is the call to give our all, to come and die with Him, so that we might live… anything less, just isn’t the real thing…

Paul goes on to say in Philippians, “Therefore, God also highly exalted him and gave him the name that is above every name, so that at the name of Jesus every knee should bend in heaven and on earth and under the earth and every tongue confess that Jesus Christ is Lord, to the glory of God the Father.”

Real Christianity means that we are transformed by the renewing of our minds… to have the same mindset as Christ… so that we might offer our bodies as living sacrifices, holy and pleasing to God… no longer living for ourselves, but living wholly for Him. Please, please, please… don’t settle for cheap grace… don’t stop until you find the real thing. Let me leave you with a beautiful blessing that I came across recently:

Benediction: May God bless you with discomfort at easy answers, half-truths, and superficial relationships, so that you may live deep within your heart.

May God bless you with anger at injustice, oppression, and exploitation of people, so that you may work for justice, freedom and peace.

May God bless you with tears to shed for those who suffer from pain, rejection, starvation, and war, so that you may reach out your hand to comfort them and turn their pain to joy.

And may God bless you with enough foolishness to believe that you can make a difference in this world, so that you can do what others claim cannot be done.